5 Challenges of Homesteading in Your Twenties



#1 Responding to “Want to grab a drink tonight?”


Loaded question- yes, of course we do!  Right after we feed the pigs, lock up the chickens, deworm the goats, start new feed fermenting, wash out everyone’s water buckets, start a load of laundry (clothes never stay clean on the farm) and take the dogs out.  Right after that we would love to grab a drink… of the moonshine our friends gave us at home in the comfort of our pajamas.


Oh!  You meant a drink at a place that frowns upon patrons in elastic waisted pants?  Hm… maybe another time!




#2 Dinner Plans


Since deciding to raise our own meat for humane and health reasons, we have been trying to make a conscious effort to be responsible consumers.  We are THOSE people who buy the 5 dollar carton of free range eggs, the ground beef from the local grass fed farm, and the yogurt that comes from happy cows and we honestly believe it is worth every penny.  Since making those decisions though it has been harder for us to go out to eat. Most restaurants in our area do not mirror our values and we hate to pay money for something we don’t believe in.  Our most recent solution has been dinner parties!  But lets be real, we are still in our 20s, the whole budgeting thing seems a little far off and hazy, and feeding 6 people organic, grass-fed steak is really freaking expensive.




#3 Community


Most people our age are not doing what we are doing.  The constant tasks that demand our attention and keep pulling us back to our home can be isolating.  We have no experience in agriculture to have farming friends, no kids to keep us plugged into other people through “mommy groups”, and hardly enough time to keep up with the friends we do have.  If you are one of those friends and reading this- we haven’t forgotten you!




#4 Finances


Michael and I have some kick-butt jobs with companies that do awesome things for their employees and take seriously the impact they have on larger communities.  That being said, we have entry level positions.  Living in Asheville where the cost of living to the average salary is extremely disproportionate, we have very entry level salaries.  Not only that, but neither of us have ever owned or maintained a home, raised animals, managed acreage (even though it is just a couple), or been accountable to anyone but ourselves for our finances.  I am sure that there is a learning curve, we are just on the wrong side of it!  Moving is generally expensive, but add on the start-up costs of fencing, coops, pens, shelters, animals, feed, and medicine and we have been cooking up a recipe for what I call “I am so proud that we kept $6.13 in our savings account baby!”. Soon we will be swimming in eggs, pork, and goat’s milk, but right now we are swimming in bills!




#5 Patience


We love what we are doing.  Everyday presents a new challenge and it is awesome to have a wildly passionate and dedicated partner to take on those challenges with!  However, this is a very long term project.  We lie in bed at night and tell each other our dreams of having all of our  hard work at the farm pay for our mortgage, of having a well-read and followed blog, of becoming experts in our field, but all of that is a long way off.  The farm doesn’t currently pay for itself and neither of us are good with moderation (we are talking about adding quail to the farm!) Eventually our growth is going to have to slow and we are going to learn how to focus on maintaining and improving efficiency in order to possibly create a profitable farm.


These are the challenges we are currently facing,  what are your biggest challenges?  What have you found to combat these issues?  We would love to hear from you below!

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  1. Thank goodness yall ARE doing this homesteading NOW, and while you’re young! Because there is not a snowballs chance in hell that I’d ever be able to pull off a quarter of what yall do, at my age and experience level anyway! Yall are doing a fine job. And miraculously still love each other dearly.
    Loving the blog. I am one of those friends! !!

  2. my problems, mine are the fact that my mother has cancer, my brother isn’t paying attention to class, i’ve got a failing youtube channel i’m trying to keep above the ground. but it’s nice to see you guys are enjoying your life, just because the year’s been being an asshole to me mostly, doesn’t mean the world should stop and kiss my ass.

    • I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Family and health are two very stressful issues. I hope the new year is kinder to you!

  3. I’m in my 20s, and dreaming of what you guys are doing. Currently live with my fiance in a city with a tiny yard, but have been integrating all the “homesteading” I can in our lives. But, I’m dreaming of the day in 6 years or so when we can buy a small plot of land for the homestead! Best of luck in 2017!

    • I think homesteading is more dependent on a lifestyle than a physical place. Keep up the good work! I read an interesting book recently called “The Urban Homesteading Cookbook” that went through a lot of interesting information on small space homesteading including aquaponics, livestock, and gardening! It also had some more extreme ideas on foraging that I just passed over (: You might want to check it out!

  4. I think it is so awesome what you all are doing. We have the same dream, in our mid-thirties, and have 2 kids to work into the equation. It will happen, hopefully sooner than later. Keep it up and you will be happier than most!